That was a very informative question session, sorry I missed it, I was convinced it was a 6.30 start until I went to log in and saw it said 6!
Just a quick question, I was wondering how to build Murph’s confidence in people as it doesn’t seem like I am getting anywhere, he is still extremely wary. He will still him at times, walk behind my legs or if he is feeling brave he will edge to sniff but if the person makes any sort of movement especially sudden he will jump at them or nip at shoes. I always warn people that he is nervous and can be a bit nippy.
I think as I am unsure of his reactions especially if the make a sudden movement I try to keep him back which is obviously not helping.
Just wondered if there was anything I can do to try and make home more relaxed and more confident?
I think realistically you are doing everything correct. Out on walks you need to be consistently giving treats around strangers, even if they are a distance, every time he looks at them give him a treat (using the ‘watch’ command). Reward all calm behaviours straight away. Try and create space if necessary using the ‘turn’ command and getting him to a safe location with a greater distance if required.
I would suggest the people that stop you to tell you how cute Murphy is (which I suspect happens alot) instead of them going down to him and trying to get into his space just explain as you do already that he is shy around people and say instead of trying to talk to him the best thing you can do for him is throw a treat down to him.
With the ‘watch’ and association of seeing other people as a reward and then the reward of others throwing treats down hopefully he will start to see people more as a positive than a negative.
I think with Murphy the main thing is to ensure he has the space he needs so he can make the choice to back away or move forward if he wants too. Try and focus more on the calm behaviours and be ready to praise them and where possible try and ignore the unwanted behaviours.
I would say choose the people wisely as you need someone that will follow your guidance, even if it is a case of asking every friend or family member to be out at the same time so you can plan to walk into them and practice with the treat throwing. Just make sure they throw his all time favourite treats.
As they go to walk away get them to throw treats for him (just as we do with the standing up at home) so he is then again getting a positive association but instead of going in for a nip he is getting distracted by the treats instead.
The more games and training you continue to do will also be of huge help. I wouldn’t be overly fussed if he does choose to hind behind your legs, the main thing is to ensure we respect his decision of wanting space and make sure other people do not try and invade that space.
I hope that has answered your question
Anything else then please ask
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